A relationship can be heaven or hell on earth. I think we should all strive to make our relationships more heavenly as opposed to hellish.
Relationships are tough and they are things we do that can hurt the way two people can grow together in harmony.
Let me list bunch of things you should not do and a bunch of things you ought to do in a relationship as a women.
Dos and don’ts
-Do not belittle him in public or in private even if you are joking.
Of course humour is important but there should be a way of doing things. You can’t make him appear inferior.
I was hanging out with this girl and I did not really know how I felt about her.
We had great banter but she was taking it too far.
She was making fun of me and I was making fun of her and it was all well and good but I ended up realising that I was not attracted to her.
One of the reasons is that the kidding around and mocking around is usually something men do to each other.
So when you start doing this you can become more of a annoying “bro” than a girlfriend.
Support your men in every way you can. Make him feel that he is important for you and your well being.
If he has a dream, a vision encourage him. When he is in doubt. Crush those doubts. Let him know that you are here for him. Loyalty and devotion are sexy attributes.
-Do not neg your man. Do not infantilise him.
If you treat him like a boy he will end up feeling like a boy and eventually behaving like one that fears is Momma.
Do not making him feel like you are towering above him. Avoid condescending behaviours and demeanours such as looking down on him literally and figuratively.
Treat him as an equal partner. Ask for his help and opinion. If he fucks up find better ways to broach the subject.
Be meek and soft spoken. He will melt and listen to whatever you have to said. He is your man and you are his woman both equal and complementary.
-Do not refuse him sex. This is a big one. One of the reasons men want to be in a relationship is that they can have an “easy” access to sex.
They don’t need to chase it as much. They don’t need go on tinder anymore. Men are incredibly sexual and use sex and a way to “get the poison out” and relieve tension.
If you are constantly rejecting your man how do you think he is going to fell and what might be the long term consequences ?
Make him feel you want him. Surprise him with new lingerie and “special dates”.
Keep him on his toes and keep the passion alive. It is normal after a while to get into some kind of routine.
It’s great to have habits and teamwork but you’re still intimate lovers and need to work on your physical relationship as
-Do not start neglecting yourself and your appearance.
Getting into a relationship and a routine is easy. It’s comfortable. What usually happens after that is you stop taking care of yourself.
The waxing, the workouts and the skincare sessions are not as frequent anymore.
You don’t pay as much attention to your looks as you once did and that’s when the problems start.
Keep on taking care of yourself. We men are simple visual creature. It does not take much to make us go all crazy over you.
Do not make him do all the chores. We found ourselves in a postmodern era so both parties usually work.
There needs to be some kind of work management for the household. It would be unfair not to share the chores.
Even though we live in a time when everything is mixed up. It is important in my opinion for men and women in a relationship to keep their masculine essence and women to keep their feminine essence because this is what is needed to make a relationship work. Scroll down for more.
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