- Sebastien Grynko
In the first part we covered appearance, looks and body language. Now what we are going to talk about the core intangibles who matter just as much and if I am being completely honest - probably much more.
No I am not talking about physical strength. I am talking about the ability of a man to cope with stress and handle difficult situations. Women are attracted to a man who when push comes to shove can show up and tackle any situation with composure and determination.
His strength of character is also the ability to resolve problems and be reliable. To be a rock not only in life but also to face a women’s unstable emotional nature and remain sanguine,
-Driven by purpose
Women don’t want to be the adventure. They want to be part of the adventure. They want a man who has a mission, a drive in life. Some challenge, some passion that pushes them to the best of their potential.
Women don’t want to be your end all be all. They don’t want you to have them as a number one priority. Don’t get me wrong they want you to consider her a priority in life but they want you to be driven by something more than just you and her.
-A sense of humour
A sense of humour don’t necessarily mean that you are funny. However it does mean that are you able to put a light touch on things and put fun and laughter in her life. Wittiness, irony, sarcasm, cheekiness and playfulness can help a lot as well. They don’t want you to take things and yourself so seriously all the time.
-The ability to listen
That one is very important. As man we might be distracted by work and a million other things. Oftentimes we neglect what is coming out of a woman’s mouth because it seemingly does not serve any purpose.
Listening, really listening is a way to show how much you care about a woman. It also goes a long way to prove that she matters and you are there for her and her needs.
-Making her feel desired
All those traits I have mentioned above are important but this one is what makes a platonic relationship turn to an intimate relationship. Women want to feel desired and almost worshipped. Your ability to find her buttons and push them will make you irresistible. Scroll down for more.
- Sebastien Grynko